www.nmgpsy.com内蒙古心理网实验几乎完全无助于理解人类心理。要了解人类心理,就应当抛弃精确实验、收起学术腔调、告别自己的研究课题,转而用自己的人类心理体验世界。在牢狱、精神病院、医院的恐怖中,在沉闷的乡村酒馆中,在妓院与赌场中,在高雅沙龙中,在股票交易所中,在社会党人集会中,在教堂中,在信仰复兴运动者集会中,在狂热宗教流派中——借助于爱与恨、借助于对每一种自身内在激情的体验——人类心理的探索者能够收获更多的知识,远胜于厚厚的书本。从此,他学会如何使用有关人类心灵的真正知识,来医治病患者。——卡尔.心理学论坛6l‑O
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N'ww5mQK9TjbC 内蒙古心理网/dEIC-Y)l There are many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity.
内蒙古心理网#D.WU'c9@?)M 一年中的夜晚与白天数量相同、持续时间一样长。即使快乐的生活也有其阴暗笔触,没有“悲哀”提供平衡,“愉快”一词就会失去意义。耐心镇静地接受世事变迁,是最好的处事之道。
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内蒙古心理网!F.X }q#z.rh`2[ 人需要困扰,困扰是心理健康的必需之物。
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内蒙古心理网9mS/S R\f B)|7^4OC 6g)CuJ%Qu?j[u0 The most intense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calm that is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and their conflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.
2f2Mf o2]8V_m0 对最强烈冲突的克服,使我们获得一种稳定超然的安全与宁静感。要获得有益而持久的心理安全与宁静,所需要的正是这种强烈冲突的大暴发。
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内蒙古心理网Q0U*U+LI'k 中年之后,只有已为告别人生做好准备的人,才能继续在生活中朝气蓬勃。
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Dc;\U$B7A0 潜意识如果没有进入意识,就会引导你的人生而成为你的命运。
内蒙古心理网:`:X1J'i3X .g[&|x'WN0 Wholly unprepared, we embark upon the second half of life. Or are there perhaps colleges for forty-year-olds which prepare them for their coming life and its demands as the ordinary colleges introduce our young people to a knowledge of the world? No, thoroughly unprepared we take the step into the afternoon of life; worse still, we take this step with the false assumption that our truths and ideals will serve us as hitherto. But we cannot live the afternoon of life according to the programme of life's morning; for what was great in the morning will be little at evening, and what in the morning was true will at evening have become a lie.
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内蒙古心理网U9?v'|wE.NK g[(C(W'U*Y5F1J0 What is essential in a work of art is that it should rise far above the realm of personal life and speak to the spirit and heart of the poet as man to the spirit and heart of mankind.
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内蒙古心理网d8dz*SL.v&N 而且,只有在完全的听天由命和孤独状态,我们才能体验到我们自身天性的积极力量。
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*f8y3fHs0 在某种意义上,我们从属于一个涵盖一切的单一心灵、从属于一个单一的“总体人”。
W Q[LR'P%O:vn0 s*[5dg\2@Kx0 What is stirred in us is that faraway background, those immemorial patterns of the human mind, which we have not acquired but have inherited from the dim ages of the past.
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